You're irrelevant to my alignment but very important to me

Until we accept the fact that the only person we'll ever be with our whole lives is ourselves and start to follow our own path, we cannot be fully satisfied. To live through another person only inevitably brings on resentment and depletion of an individual's self worth. 

We need to be self focused, and it's only the people who do not have a great relationship with themselves that see the self focused people as selfish. When you see selfishness around you, it's a clear indication of the fact that you've given too much OF yourself, rather than filling yourself up to fullness and then overflowing for others. 

Once you find a relationship, an equal one, where both parties take responsibility of their own feelings, their own alignment and own direction, you can start to build a co-creative future together. On the other side of the coin, if you have to fight for your voice to be heard, and if you need games to feel somewhat empowered, you know you're not open for a source relationship to arrive.

Although the Divine Feminine knows that no relationship is in vein, as there are teachings to be had from all of them, she encourages everyone not to compromise themselves in the process. 

Too many people are happy to give OF themselves,  make themselves a martyr, just to feel important. To release martyrdom is to accept self and all one's desires without judgement. Then it's time to ALLOW. 

If you feel judgemental towards another, they're just a decoy to take your eyes off yourself. Remember, no matter how much we feel judged by another, you can bet your bottom dollar that they're a hundred times more judgemental about themselves. We are our own worst critics. 

It's time to love self, to accept self, to make self right. It's time to connect to the most important person in your  life - YOU. 

From that place of self love and acceptance arise all other relationships. All your existing relationships are a reflection of how you feel about yourself just now. That can change any time. To have a significant other is lovely, and the only way of attracting a source relationship is to be connected to source (self) first, without needing another to fulfil us. 

You, my (future) lover ARE important to me, but my connection to my source is my priority. Without that connection, I have nothing real to give you. 

I love you.

M 

Through the eyes of the Divine Feminine.