It's so important that we know what we need from a relationship. Otherwise, we can't ask for it.
So many; women especially; don't get from the relationship what they need and it's for one of 2 reasons:
1. They don't know what they need
2. They don't know how to ask for what they need.
Often times in relationships, we have a false premise of thinking that our partner should somehow know what we need without our having to ask for it or explain it in some way. Then we condemn our partner because they don't know what we need.
Girls, let's grow up and get to know ourselves. Then we can ask for what we need, and the poor guy don't have to be guessing!
Much love and straight talk,
M
So many; women especially; don't get from the relationship what they need and it's for one of 2 reasons:
1. They don't know what they need
2. They don't know how to ask for what they need.
Often times in relationships, we have a false premise of thinking that our partner should somehow know what we need without our having to ask for it or explain it in some way. Then we condemn our partner because they don't know what we need.
Girls, let's grow up and get to know ourselves. Then we can ask for what we need, and the poor guy don't have to be guessing!
Much love and straight talk,
M
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